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10 Habits of Confident Women Fully

Senin, 27 Desember 2010 0 komentar

Women who believe themselves emit a kind of irresistible charisma. Ever met a woman who each time entering the room was always stealing everyone's attention, all he spoke, all listened, and even laughed at his joke that was not too funny? What makes a person who's special? Here is a Redbook magazine survey that asked the respondents about what makes someone look more confident.

    * 1. Sign in with style

Before entering the room, check your confidence. To radiate confidence, you need to make sure that you are comfortable with yourself. Taste ketidakpercayaandiri, shy, or low self-esteem will make people turn away from you. If you enter a large room, you never know who will be there in the room, go you step into the back corner of the room, with this, the most likely people who know you will greet you throughout the trip.

    * 2. Brave start

How can make yourself look confident if you still have a phobia to start a conversation? Before entering the room containing other people, make yourself more excited and think about what you can get if you can get acquainted with many people. When you are in a situation, in a very foreign place, but you have to sit with the person you are unfamiliar with long hours, try to bring myself to start. Palingkan face to the people closest, wide and sincere smile, introduce yourself as she asked to shake hands. Begin to ask about things in general, eg, name, origin and surrounding these events you attend.

    * 3. Deal gracefully

There will be times when you met with an unpleasant situation, for example, you forget someone's name. If this happens, remember that this sort of thing could happen to anyone, so do not be too discouraged. The first step you can do is admit that you forgot his name. Second, you can joke about such forgetfulness. The hope, he will mention his name again. When he mentioned it again, saying, "I will not forget again," then continue the conversation.

    * 4. A memorable story

A memorable story could be a menstruum atmosphere. However, keep in mind, the story, if it intended to break the ice, must have a message that is very touching or very funny. When telling a story, make sure you do not forget the details of importance. Gestures can still be acceptable, provided that is still in reasonable shape and natural. However, an interesting story really is not that necessary spices excessive movement, which is important is the selection of words.

    * 5. Stay calm

When you feel nervous and need a distraction, try to do aerobic activity suddenly, for example, jumping around, or running in place. Then try to focus. Find a quiet place to be alone and take a breath for a moment before you enter the room. Then take a deep breath and slowly when entering the room and your position in front of others. Do not forget to smile at them, staring at their eyes.

    * 6. Vini, Vidi, Vici

When you want something, do it with the calculation and wisely. For example, when you felt it was time to get a raise because the ratio of work you do and the wages earned are not balanced. If you really want to get a rise, try to do a quick, accurate, and courteous. For example, in the morning, ask him that you want to talk to him, and ask when he has free time to talk. When you are dealing with it, say how you like this job, your job, also mention the best work you produce. Then, ask him, "Could it be Mr / Ms could consider a raise for me?" Do not speak unless asked for specific numbers. End the conversation with "On this, do not need to be answered immediately." This will make your boss think that he still has control and hopefully will be more generous in offering you an increase.

    * 7. When negotiating

While you will be doing a negotiation or bidding, do not forget to enrich themselves with knowledge. Find lots of information about what you want. We will negotiate, always ask for more than they offer, and offer value below your limit. If still in doubt, think back, just decided the next day.

    * 8. Face the fear

Fear is similar to the pain. This will help you point to things that disturb your mind. When you face the fear of something, try to deal with it. Imagine a scary situation in your head, then imagine the steps that you can do to deal with the situation. Then, switch your mind to a calming thing for you, for example, the beach or the sun sank. When initiating the movement shadows before, do not forget to keep the flow of your breath to stay organized.

    * 9. Do not be intimidated

Stop negative thoughts in your head, then visualize yourself pushing others away from your 100 steps. Imagine these people are very small and black and white. This will eliminate the inferior taste in you. Well, do this when you feel less confident in the midst of conversations with people that you are unfamiliar close. When mentally you've succeeded in placing the foundations, you will be people who feel that the flow of conversation that is in your hands. Do not throw a topic whose content could trigger a competition or defensive nature of the person, but start with questions about personal things. Do not forget the sincerity.

    * 10. Throwing jokes

When you'll throw a joke, do not say that you would tell a joke, because this will make the listener put high expectations, and when your story was too funny, even be impressed crisp. Funny jokes that can be linked with the topic of conversation before, so people will feel sucked into your words, and you will find it very funny joke, because it comes unexpectedly. When the jokes you managed to make people laugh, do not be tempted to crack jokes another. Let them feel like more than you.
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When to Use Credit Card or Debit Card?

This question seems easy, but often times we are actually disadvantaged because they do not care about the use of credit cards or debit cards. Or at least, unable to enjoy the facilities offered to the maximum.

For example, some people use credit cards exclusively to pay expenses. They consider this method more secure. Through some banks, they can collect cash back or points incentive. However, this strategy requires precision and intelligence in using it so that the debt can be repaid in full or in full at the end of the month. If not, your debt will only grow.

If you use a debit card, you can only shop according to the remaining balance on your account. In fact, you should leave a few dollars after deducting the balance of the purchase. If the balance is not sufficient, you can not shop. This means you can only shop according to ability.

So you can take advantage of the facilities offered as much as possible and avoid the costs that you do not need, consider when you should use a debit card and when to use a credit card.

Use a debit card when:
* Buy something inexpensive or can be consumed

You run out of milk for children and a few other household necessities. Instead of wasting time, you stop by the mini home from the office. However, you're not carrying cash. Well, use your debit card since some mini usually apply a minimum purchase value is not so high. Do not use credit cards for purchases that are not too much or for goods that are consumed because you will pay more when you are late paying.

* Need cash fast

If you suddenly need cash, use your debit card. For BCA debit card holders, for example, you might as well take the cash in the cashier when you pay for your groceries at the mini market. Intake of such cash generally will not be charged extra, either by banks or by the merchant. The amount of cash withdrawal is determined by the availability of funds the merchant, but generally the average limit of Rp 500,000. Compare this with if you make cash withdrawals using credit cards. For Citibank credit card (all types of cards), for example, you will be charged interest at 4 percent of the amount taken.


Use a credit card when:

     * Shopping online

Either buy an airplane ticket or shopping at Amazon.com, you will be asked to pay via credit card. This is reasonable because credit cards offer greater protection in case of fraud (fraud or embezzlement).

     * Buying something expensive

Some credit cards offer extra warranty protection over the manufacturing of the products you buy. In addition, several bank credit card providers are often also works with merchants for promotional programs, such as buying fitness equipment with a special price. There is also an additional incentive program or reward accumulation that can be exchanged with certain gifts.

     * Proving credit history

You need to prove credit history when you start using credit cards and stop using it. Do this by buying an item with a credit card, and paid at the end of the month, or by paying the minimum payment. If records are good, you have the opportunity to increase credit card limit or qualify to use the Platinum card from another bank.
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orgasme via sms

Minggu, 12 Juli 2009 1 komentar

DO NOT think it is only men who dare to throw the opponent on the slouchy type. Fact, women also do the same. So, what reasons do women like that?

According to the information be Cosmopolitan, women like to send short messages (SMS) containing the words or the wanton desire for fishing grubby sex spouses. Perhaps, more effective action is to make men want to be distributing the sex appetite that long hidden.

Interestingly again, the slipshod sentence tell a woman, the man seems to have orgasme spontaneously without the need related sexual. Wow!

However, the sentence is cukupkah send frumpish make men happy? Of course not. Men are still awaiting action from challenging pasangannnya. What is? Bathroom with under kucuran water shower and have sex in bed.

In fact, the ritual bath with the pair can paste emotions and maintain family harmony. Moreover, if the bath is done with the different ways each day. For example, in the bath with bath-up, in the swimming pool area, or under the water kucuran shower. Read the full story

Oxygen Facial Therapy, How to troubleshoot in the Face

Oxygen is very beneficial to the skin healthy and ageless. It seems, Madonna always time each day to enter in the tube which contains pure oxygen in order to receive benefits.
We do not need to seekstrem that can feel fresh oxygen to the skin face and body. Now, a number of the clinic also offers beauty treatments face with oxygen

"Skin in the out called the epidermis consists of five layers, namely lusidum, stratum granulosum, and stratum basale. Every 28 days, the skin layer out be die and are replaced with the layer below it,"
Furthermore, treatment Dura Oxy Demabrasi takes about 100 minutes. Face pampered and treated with the maximum material quality of Dura. "Touch directly from our team of doctors will also provide a different experience for the patient. They will feel right and be safe," Read the full story